Monday, May 26, 2008

The breaking heart in modern life

In the modern life most people are taking care of their own life and fighting hard to survive in the cruel society. This kind of persist has old history and human being have solved some part of it but still you can see very much left behind to take care of. Modern life style gives people more freedom to do what ever they want and makes them able to examine themselves in the different ways. The problem is, the education of the meaning of being free is always behind the people’s freedom and develops itself by people’s mistakes slowly. Imagine that you live in the city with huge opportunities to select who ever you want in your life. Then you will surround yourself with the small community of people that you like. After while this small community starts to show it’s other side and this is because the nothing is designed perfectly for your situation. You like your life then you will decide to move on and go to select new people in new community because life is short and you deserve to have fun. In your next choice you will find the same problem with the same cause but you learn this fact that there is possibility that life will not follow as you are expecting it. The time goes and you do same routine again and again and in the end you find out that you gave away very much of your time, energy, humanity, emotion, morality, purity, etc to find your ideal life. If you get in this point then you will have two choices. First, stick with rule that you already believe and live as the way you always lived. Second, try to ignore some parts of your needs and put one step for other people requests to make it work. In the first choice you will always feel alone and left behind and in the second choice you always feel unsatisfied. I think for being alone and in love with life, you should be really aware of your needs and wise. The most people can’t do it. But the second condition is much easier and more trustable and even you are wise enough that makes it more enjoyable at same time.
Now it’s time to ask what is the breaking heart part in this conversation. The breaking heart is most damage that every body can cause or get in the relationship. Having more experience probably gives you more knowledge but in the same time cost you more. And wisdom is something else and doesn’t have any thing to do with the knowledge. Nobody wants a damaged emotional society and for that we need to be wiser and less selfish. I know few people that had some unsuccessful relations and because of deep damage, they stop to even think about new relation. In most case their partner was confuse, injured from past relation or inexperienced.
Let’s start to open our heart and accept whole facts of life and swim in the society with pure human being and honesty. Let’s show ourselves they whey we are and increase our wisdom and ignore some selfishness to create better community and give other people a chance to have a life with less paint and suffering in it. And believe this fact that all human being are made in same way and any pain for others will be pain for us in different time and place. Let’s to be in love with life and know that other people are part of same life.

Written by Mohammad Hosseini, Paint by George Hunt

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