Monday, August 4, 2008

What the judgmental look is about?

Last week when I was home and I was talking to my brother which I saw him after four years our conversation ended up with this sentences that he told me “when you are walking on street and somebody is staring at you that means there is something inside you that he/she feels lack of it in himself/herself and when he/she is reacting hard about it such as he/she starts wounding your feeling or mocking your act that means they still didn’t accept their weakness and believe your power” I think it is so weak if we try to get point by making other people look bad. Even every body thinks they already know this fact but it happens in their life they do something stupid to present themselves with price of making others upset or look bad. Being grown up and act like one is difficult thing to do and even most people think they are when time comes they never act like it. Many years ago I was reading an article about human social behavior and I saw this sentence, “everybody stop growing mentally and socially in one age of their life that means some people were always act like 13 years old person and some grow elder like 20 years old or more and few people actually grow up exact same age as they are”. So even we can see in our society most people act like a child, talk, live and even make decision that way. In conclusion if you see somebody is doing something wrong or even talking nonsense you should put it in his/her childhood behavior and try to understand his/her source of action as an adult because two child can be friend as easiest as become enemy and it is our responsibility to lead them for friendship and show them true way but we shouldn’t forget to act like adult not a child … most people are not that bad but a lot of them they don’t grow up enough to know those things that they are doing are wrong …

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