Playing Game

Being confused in partnership is most difficult part of any relation and takes a lot of time to get read of it and most the times is including “playing game” between two persons. We should remember when we start to handle a game in the relationship that means something big is missing. The game is mostly happened between two people who just met and they are not sure about each other situations. I personally don’t like it but sometimes you need to get involve to it because if you never try it then how you can find somebody that you like. Most girls like to show that they are hard catch and because of that they put first step and doesn’t matter how much they like men they need a proof. According to reality, most social girls get approach every week so they have a lot of experience of different men moves. After while they come up with a solution to filter some of regular men and focus on specific one and those games are some part of their filtering and probably they need it to not do same mistake with men over and over again. Some of typical girlish games are as follow:
Girls are answering your call fast to make it hot and then no answering for while to make it cold to check your reaction and come up with an answer for important question, “why that man is interesting to her?”
Girls start looking at your eyes and your body language and ask simple question that they already know the answer or they can guess it to find “that man is a person who telling truth or not”
Girls say no; when you give them choice to choose because they don’t want to be responsible for doing things wrong such as “are you coming to movie with me?”
Girls say yes; when they find out men are loosing their interest because girls want to meet ideal person and when guy is cooling down they feel safer with him such as “I’m going to dinner with some friends and their friends do want to come?”
Girls usually make lame excuse to check men to see “how desperate men are? Or how much men fight for them?”
And many other games that are out of my time to explain. Now a new question is coming up; do we think these games and filtering would help us? Big problem about the filtering people is that two kinds of people are passing those filters. First is our favorite match and second is professional serial dater and as you can see those two persons are really different and they will affect your life differently, which makes you either happy or sad. In bottom line, what we should do about it? Should we practice to prepare for those games and get involve in many relation to find our final match – or - Should be honest and looking forward to someday that somebody show up in our life and makes us happy person in the world?
written by Mohammad Hosseini