What did we learn from ex-relation?

These days most people have a big history of their relations with other people. Let’s look back and see what did we learn from those relations? In old society when two persons meet each other, after while they get involve more and sometimes they ended up married and they lived rest of their life base on that situation. Now most people are afraid to choose because they always think that would be better option for them in future. They go and go and jump from one relation to another and after while they totally get lost in their life and they don’t know what they want anymore. I think having some experience in our life would be good but living whole life to check every details of each single relation is horrible. For most of us, it is a time to stop missing around and look back to the past and see what did happened? Because we should consider this fact that in every new relation we learn something and we loose something else as well, sometimes we learn how to be careful and more passion and in other hand we loose some parts of our truth and belief. It is better to look at the people with the long history of different partner then you will see, most of them closed their feeling and emotion and in some cases they can’t open it because they can’t take a new damage even their mind and body don’t follow them anymore. I actually saw some people when even somebody mention to be engaged they start having breath problem, their skin rash or all other anxiety sign effects come up.

Let’s take it easy for while and look at outside logically to find best solution and always know our best teacher is our past and stop looking to others, let’s look inside and find what do we need and then just do it. Don’t be difficult because by being difficult you will make your life difficult and then you become confuse and as soon as this confusion become a part of your personality then it will be hard to see real life and then you will loose more and more until it puts you in position that nothing will satisfy you anymore.

by Mohammad Hosseini